page 15-1:
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1. | caught dealing drugs (M) // attempt suicide (F) | 1
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2. | raped (F) // sexually molested (M) | 1 // 3
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3. | lose home & move into projects | 2
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4. | parent dies // expelled | 2 // 4
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5. | become pregnant (F) // join a gang (M) | 3
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6. | sexually assaulted (attempted rape) (F) // sent to juvenile court for battery (hit teacher with chair) (M) | 3
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7. | parents divorce (D) // wage earner loses job | 3 // 5
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8. | parents divorce (D) // get into a knife fight with another student | 3 // 4
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9. | lose virginity and have several relationships | 4
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10. | failed, held back a year in school (MF//M) | 4
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11. | starting to use marijuana // alcohol | 4 // 5
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12. | have been getting a lot of F's in school | 5
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13. | suspended for fighting in school repeatedly (M) // sexually harassed in school (F) | 5
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14. | suspended for fighting in school repeatedly (M) // brother gets shot (F) | 5
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15. | tracked into low math/reading classes | 6
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16. | get to know members of a local jazz band | 12
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17. | become a client of juvenile services | 13
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18. | parents participate in marital therapy (D) // alcoholic parent participates in AA (A) | 14
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19. | develop on-going relationship w/ caring, supportive school counselor | 18
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20. | teacher develops a caring relationship with you // parent remarries (D) / adopted by a loving family (O) | 18 / 20 |
page 15-2:
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1. | attempt suicide | 1
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2. | raped (F) // sexually molested (M) | 1 // 3
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3. | become pregnant (F) // join a gang (M) | 3
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4. | sexually assaulted (attempted rape) (F) // sent to juvenile court for battery (hit teacher with chair) (M) | 3
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5. | parents divorce (D) // wage earner loses job | 3 // 5
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6. | parents divorce (D) // get into a knife fight with another student | 4
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7. | lose virginity and have several relationships | 4
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8. | fighting in school repeatedly (M) // sexually harassed in school (F) | 5
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9. | fighting in school repeatedly (M) // sexually harassed in school (F) | 5
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10. | get caught smoking in the bathroom (MF//M) | 6
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11. | recruited by gang (M) // Diagnosed with bulimia (F) | 6/7
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12. | smoking cigarettes a lot with friends | 7
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13. | move to a new school (worse) | 8
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14. | get involved in theatre club at school | 12
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15. | become a client of juvenile services | 13
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16. | serve on a panel for race relations in your high school | 14
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17. | parents participate in marital therapy (D) // alcoholic parent participates in AA (A) | 16
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18. | "adopted" by a "big brother/sister" | 16
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19. | develop on-going relationship w/ caring, supportive school counselor | 18
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20. | parent remarries (D) / adopted by a loving family (O) // teacher develops a caring relationship with you | 20 // 18 |
page 15-3:
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1. | parent dies | 2
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2. | starting to use cocaine (M) // become pregnant (F) | 3
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3. | sexually assaulted (attempted rape) (F) // suspended for fighting in school repeatedly (M) | 3 // 5
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4. | held back a year in school (MF//M) | 4
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5. | parents divorce (D) // wage earner loses job | 3 // 5
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6. | parents divorce (D) // get into a knife fight with another student | 4
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7. | lose virginity and have several relationships | 4
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8. | realize/conclude you are gay/lesbian | 4
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9. | diagnosed with a learning disability | 6
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10. | caught smoking behind the school (MF//M) | 7
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11. | make friends with peers with poor grades | 8
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12. | have gotten into several arguments with teachers | 8
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13. | have a C average at school | 8
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14. | move to a new school | 9
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15. | go to summer camp / church trip during the summer | 12
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16. | get part-time job working at MacDonald's | 13
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17. | win school/county wide academic contest (creative writing, speech , art, math, science) | 15
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18. | participate in sunday school & church youth group | 16
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19. | really good kid your age moves into neighborhood, becomes best friend | 17
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20. | grandparent moves near; develop loving, caring, active relationship | 19 |
page 15-4:
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1. | attempt suicide | 1
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2. | sexually assaulted by brother--dont tell anyone (F) // sent to juvenile court for battery (hit teacher with chair) (M) | 3
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3. | parents divorce (D) // D average in school | 4
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4. | parents divorce (D) // fight with student with knife and injure him (M) | 4
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5. | lose virginity and have several relationships | 4
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6. | fighting in school repeatedly (M) / sexually harassed in school (F) | 5
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7. | committed vandalism but not caught (M) // start stealing but not caught (F) | 6
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8. | Mom finds out you've been sneaking out in middle of night w/ friends | 8
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9. | get a role in school play | 12
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10. | member of a sports team (M) / music club (F) | 13
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11. | take music (piano, clarinet, flute) lessons | 13
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12. | voted student council representative | 13
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13. | win school/county wide academic contest (creative writing, speech , art, math, science) | 14
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14. | become good friends with a really nice boy/girl (opposite sex) | 14
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15. | elected boy/girl scout patrol leader | 14
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16. | volunteer at crisis center | 15
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17. | volunteer at church food pantry | 16
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18. | really good kid your age moves into neighborhood & becomes best friend | 17
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19. | selected to participate in a mentor program at school | 17
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20. | parent remarries (D) // teacher develops a caring relationship with you | 18 |
page 15-5:
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1. | starting to use cocaine (M) // become pregnant (F) | 3
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2. | parents divorce (D) // parent becomes an alcoholic | 4
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3. | parents divorce (D) // rumored to be gay/lesbian over extended period | 5 // 6
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4. | lose virginity and have several relationships | 4
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5. | experiment with marijuana // alcohol | 4 // 6
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6. | caught shoplifting in 7-11, handled poorly/well | 6/8
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7. | move to a new school: bad//good | 8/11
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8. | suffer bouts of depression | 8
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9. | favorite uncle dies | 9
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10. | semi or finalist in class/school math/speech/art competition // honorable mention / place in school science fair | 13
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11. | volunteer at nursing home | 14
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12. | win school/county wide academic contest (creative writing, speech, art, math, science, band) | 14
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13. | accepted into academic enrichment program | 16
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14. | participate in sunday school & church youth group | 16
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15. | serve on a panel for race relations in your high school | 16
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16. | elected to church youth board | 16
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17. | really good kid your age moves into neighborhood, becomes best friend | 17
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18. | become an star/life/eagle scout & senior patrol leader | 18
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19. | parent remarries (D) // develop on-going relationship with a caring, supportive school counselor | 18
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20. | very supportive uncle/aunt moves near; develop loving, caring, active relationship | 19 |
page 15-6:
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1. | lose virginity and have several relationships | 4
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2. | experiment with marijuana // alcohol | 4 // 6
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3. | parents divorce (D) // make older friend, hard rocker, who uses drugs (M) / Diagnosed anorexia nervosa (F) | 5//6
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4. | move to a new school: (worse) // grandparent dies | 9
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5. | go to church trip during the summer | 12
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6. | host a foreign exchange student | 13
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7. | voted student council representative | 13
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8. | selected for main/major role in school play | 13
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9. | take music lessons (piano, violin, viola, clarinet, flute) | 13
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10. | semi or finalist in class/school math/speech/art competition // honorable mention / place in school science fair | 13
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11. | trip to Europe with family, decide you want to study [language] | 14
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12. | volunteer at nursing home | 14
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13. | win school/county wide academic contest (creative writing, speech , art, math, science, band) | 14
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14. | voted class president | 15
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15. | accepted into academic enrichment program | 15
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16. | participate in sunday school & church youth group | 16
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17. | elected to church youth board | 17
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18. | become an star/life/eagle scout & senior patrol leader | 18
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19. | parent remarries (D) // teacher develops a caring relationship with you | 18
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20. | accepted to magnet high school (math, science, arts) | 19 |